Sunday, December 30, 2012

On Starting a Blog


            How could I say anything and not feel like a shithead? Especially to you. It’s not that I’m for lack of things to bring up to you. I have real ideas about topics that I cringe to even verbalize in my mind. Some of them might even interest you.
No, listen, see that pretentious fuckwad slouched in the seat a few rows to the left? The one in the glasses and red flannel. See? Notice how he has a tattered, used copy of The Myth of Sisyphus poking out of his backpack. Of course you do. That’s the whole point. He probably has a blog and a tumblr too where he spouts off poorly written, Thoreauian bullshit that he memorized to the collective wet panties of his dozens of dipshit, artschool-girl followers, while I jerk off to internet porn every night.
He’s the reason that I can’t find my words...
Have you ever known anyone who seriously suffered from depression? I mean the sort where the person doesn’t idolatrously hang posters of Sylvia Plath and Ian Curtis on their wall for romantic inspiration. It’s always the one’s you least suspect. No, that’s too trite. What I really mean is it’s the ones who never fucking talk about it.
I’ve seen tumblr posts where the user seriously lamented having lost the creative inspiration of depression. I’ve had a girl tell me long winded, clearly rehearsed stories about her history of cutting—well, it happened one time. With a tack. And there was no scar—before taking a long drag and telling me that she really smoked cigarettes for the artistic aspect.
See people who actually have depression often don’t talk about it out of embarrassment. Out of fear of being lumped in with the bloggers and artistic smokers. But it goes deeper than that. Beyond the fear of being lumped in with them is the fear that they might actually be one of them. Standing on the overburdened shoulders of actual thought and feeling so to create an image. In other words, a fraud in the worst sense. And in opening their mouths, all the words in the world could only create the most infuriating of confirmations.
And it goes for everything. The kid with the genuine love of music hiding his acoustic guitar for fear of every pussy chaser howling away at “In the Aeroplane Over the Sea” out on the campus lawn. The girl with thoughtful and genuine qualms with America’s socio-economic, political climate shutting her mouth for fear of every dutifully liberal undergrad who ever ventured to Chomsky’s wikiquote page. The…
What? Yes, yes, I know, people of such pretention, fraudulence and narcissism probably aren’t this self aware of the possibilities of their own subconscious. It is a distinct few. In fact, I doubt that anyone in this room could possibly be so thoughtful as I am being right now. A model of near Christian humility I must be, and of a mind that surely needs outlet to the lowly masses so to…
Okay, okay, I’ll stop, but you get the point. This sort of train of thought signifies nothing whatsoever other than a new subject of narcissism and false self-worth. The fact is that no one goes around thinking that they’re a fraud or a narcissist. If a fraudulent narcissist had any modicum of intelligence, it would only make sense that their subconscious narcissism would be imbued with that same intelligence. And the very first thing that it would do would be to send those sort of thoughts on their way to create a safety net of false humility...
I know! And here’s the thing, I do have genuine—or at least what I think are genuine—thoughts on Camus and Thoreau (that flower gazing twit). If you would just let me speak I could talk to you about culture’s shaping of our emotional landscape, bizarre childhood fears, genuine emotional concerns, the philosophy of ethics. I have opinions on these things, and I’ll bet you do too. But although I am unsure of whether these things are solely fraudulent, I know for a fact that they are not entirely genuine...
How do I know? Well, Christ, I’ve been silently staring at you, trying to will myself to speak for the past ten minutes (which may ultimately prove to be too long to recover from, regardless of my charm), but the question is why you? Out of everyone in this lecture hall why is it you that I’m trying to talk to? I suppose we can never say with certainty, but I hope I’m not stepping out of line in stating that, objectively, you are quite attractive. That’s the polite way of saying that I want to fuck you. If it was merely genuine intellectual and emotional outreach that I desired, why am I not talking to the girl four rows up and to the left with elephant man syndrome. I’m sure that she has a winning personality and some truly insightful ideas if I just looked past the fiberous tumors growing out of her face. And on top of that, I enjoy being liked and thought clever…
No, I’m not beating myself up for it. Who fucking doesn’t like that? I’m just saying that with such obvious ulterior motives present in every word and action, complete fraudulence remains an always-present possibility, while the hope of complete earnestness is an absurdity. The Underground Man became unable to voice the pain of his toothache after becoming aware of the validating joy he felt in his screams, and I became unable to talk to you after becoming aware that I may actually enjoy the benefits of occasional social interaction…
Christ, stick a knife in me, why don’t ya? Well, if you’re gonna go throwing around the P-word then I’ll just keep my thoughts to myself. Good?
Great…
           
           
            …Do you remember the dilemma of school poops?...
            School poops. Oh, come on. Remember back in middle school, the dread everyone would feel at having to take a shit during the school day? Well anyway at my school the dilemma of the school poop was definitely fucking there. No, it was more of a dread. Every day the entire school’s population would spend class after class holding in their shit because of the fear of being lumped in with the school shitters. Those school shitters were a gnarly bunch. They were the ones you’d see picking their underpants out of their assholes with two fingers. They were the ones always hunched over or holding their binders in front of their thighs when the homely, 33 year old Chorus teacher walked by. And when they would shit, my god, they would shit catastrophes beyond the comprehension of human bowels. Splatter jobs spitting from the side of the bowl, nerf footballs lumbering awake at the bottom of the bowl’s mist, segregated entities united only by membrane-like mucas strands…
            Okay, okay, but it was the entire class, every fucking one of us. We were trapped in a room of our creation, beating our fists against a door that was locked from the inside. We gave those little spazzes their power. And if only we had just shit when we needed to, knowing full well the impossibility of knowing what would have come out, their power would have been destroyed. There would have been no fear. There would have been no shame.
            Hey, how’re you…

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